Just go for it: Top 5 Reasons to Ignore Your Brain and Follow Your Heart

In an age in which almost everything is being simplified and reduced to robotic-levels of thinking, it can be quite difficult for anyone to stay true to themselves. Indeed, we as humans have a tendency to try to fit in rather than standout. Thus, many learn to silence their own voice in the name of uniformity and group cohesion from very early in life. However, is this the best way to live your life? Usually not.


The Top 5 Reasons to Ignore Your Brain and Follow Your Heart: 

5. It’s Your Journey– While this should go without saying, it obviously needs to be said: it’s your life! That’s right, no matter who you love or try to impress no one else will ever be able to live your life for you (body doubles and identity thefters be damned). That being said, we as humans have a tendency to seek out advice from trusted sources when we are experiencing a dilemma. This is obviously a good way to get different perspectives but when it’s all said and done you and you alone will be stuck with the ramifications of said decisions. Furthermore, people tend to give the best advice for them (something you should always keep in mind) so the end results may even be more favorable for them than yourself.

4. Intuition is Real– Whether or not you believe it’s all a bunch of new age mumbo jumbo, there is a lot to be said about the power of intuition. According to a study conducted by Psychology Today  “This part of our brain became highly skilled at sensing immediate danger as well as places of safety.  However, because most of us now live a relatively safe, day-to-day existence, that part of our brain is not triggered very often, and when it is, we are not familiar with it, so we tend to ignore its messages.” That is to say that most of us only tap into this part of the brain when our safety is at risk. This speaks to the fact that intuition is an innate, primal instinct that can be used for a variety of things.

3. Inspire Others– You don’t necessarily go on a campaign of greatness to inspire other people. Many times the most minuscule actions to some is wildly courageous for another. Things such as changing careers or going back to school are great examples of how making a decision to pursuit our interests can rub off on others. Sometimes all it takes is for someone to see you doing something…to realize that they could/should be doing it too.

2. YODO (You Only Die Once)– You read it right: you only die once…you live everyday! Never stifle your goals or future because you’re catering to people who will one day be a thing of the past. If you want to do something (that’s not hurting anyone) do it! Fill your days with the things that you love; everyday can be a new adventure!

1. Dreams Come True– The top reason why you should ignore your brain and follow your heart: dreams come true! Sure, it may be a long shot for you to be the next Jay-Z or Beyonce…but I’m also willing to wager that Hov and Bey were both told they’d never be…Hov and Bey. That is to say, if you are not pursuing your true passions in life because you have rationalized that you will never be successful in it…you’re only killing yourself. It’s no secret why celebrities and other rich and/or famous people seem happier than the rest of the world…it’s because most of them have found a way to do exactly what they want to do with their lives. We are routinely told that money isn’t everything, this is true. However, there is an innately joyful experience to get paid for doing things you actually enjoy doing.

In Conclusion…

It may sound cliché but follow you heart! The mind is there to help you navigate around hurdles and pitfalls, not to prevent you from succeeding in life. Sometimes it’s good to quiet your brain and let the lub-dub of your heart take center stage.

Venus L

Resolution Revolution: Top 5 Ways to Kick-Start Success in 2015

I’ve made it no secret that I am not a fan of New Year’s resolutions. Though I certainly appreciate the notion, overall waiting till New Year’s to make vital life changes can be detrimental to the flow of personal development. That being said, with the end of this year quickly approaching why not focus on self-improvement?! Without further ado, I present my top 5 ways to kick-start your success in 2015.

5. Clean Up!

Cool your jets, people! No one is suggesting that your house needs to be spotless simply because we’re approaching a new year. However, I can’t think of a better time to throw away old papers/documents and get rid of dated or too small clothing, toys your children have outgrown, etc. There are donation centers across the globe just pining for your old things and many will even come to you! This is a perfect opportunity to help yourself as well as many others. Cleaning up your clutter can have profound effects on your general well-being as well as your productivity.

4. Cut Old Ties…

No, this isn’t some sort of weird DIY arts and crafts project. Rather, my suggestion is that you sever all relationships that no longer suit you. We all have at least one (some of us, quite a few) person in our lives that don’t deserve to be there. Stop wasting time! No matter the reason, if you feel someone doesn’t deserve your time, stop giving it to them! You’ll be surprised at how much your life can improve once you stop wasting energy on superficial interactions…

3. Read!

Ok, this may be a no-brainer, but the best way to learn new habits is to read! Seriously, everything you’ve dreamed of doing has likely already been written about in detail. Most people never achieve their goals because they don’t know where to start. It’s a very good idea to begin by reading about those who accomplished their goals.

2. Reevaluate/Write Down Your Goals

The best way to stay focused on a goal is to write about it in detail. Create a “‘goal journal,” write down all your short and long-term goals, and regularly update!

1. Just Do It!

Now that you have all of your ducks in a row get to work! Preparation is important, but the most prepared person in the world will still get nothing done if she or he doesn’t put their plan into action. Create a goal and make it happen!

Overall, making changes in your life can be scary. Follow these steps and you’ll be that much closer to achieving things you may have already decided are impossible. Indeed, once you begin taking chances you’ll realize that impossible…is impossible.

Venus L